Breaking Free From Abuse
Exodus 14:21-28Then Moses stretched out his hand over the sea; and the Lord caused the sea to go back by a strong east wind all that night, and made the sea into dry land, and the waters were divided. 22 So the children of Israel went into the midst of the sea on the dry ground, and the waters were a wall to them on their right hand and on their left. 23 And the Egyptians pursued and went after them into the midst of the sea, all Pharaoh’s horses, his chariots, and his horsemen.
24 Now it came to pass, in the morning watch, that the Lord looked down upon the army of the Egyptians through the pillar of fire and cloud, and He troubled the army of the Egyptians. 25 And He took off[a] their chariot wheels, so that they drove them with difficulty; and the Egyptians said, “Let us flee from the face of Israel, for the Lord fights for them against the Egyptians.”
26 Then the Lord said to Moses, “Stretch out your hand over the sea, that the waters may come back upon the Egyptians, on their chariots, and on their horsemen.” 27 And Moses stretched out his hand over the sea; and when the morning appeared, the sea returned to its full depth, while the Egyptians were fleeing into it. So the Lord overthrew the Egyptians in the midst of the sea. 28 Then the waters returned and covered the chariots, the horsemen, and all the army of Pharaoh that came into the sea after them. Not so much as one of them remained.
Abuse is hard to break out of. You often keep going back. And the abuser doesnt stop abusing some do if the open their eyes but many dont. Putting you down constantly. Not allowing you to exscape your past failures trying to keep control of you. Because of there own weakness of failures. Controling how u can speak to them. Making you feel that everythings your fault. That you must stay on their constant torture. And some say they want to see u happy yet they constantly abuse u. Using you for sex money their own pleasure. You want to enjoy life not live in abuse
Don't go Back to The Abuse !!
Abuse : treat a person with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.
Numbers 14:4 And they said one to another, Let us make a captain, and let us return into Egypt.
It takes courage to break out of abuse. Your in it so long you get comfortable in it. You allow the person to treat you in any kind of way and it becomes your normal. From the constant blaming, from the name calling, using you only in a sexual manner, from making it seem as no one else will love you. Making you feel worthless. From the lies and the cheating to constant mind games. To using everything against you to make you seem as you are this horrible person. Its going to be hard but take it oneday at a time your going to make it out. Keep pushing forward oneday at a time but don't go back.
Verbal Abuse
Psalm 141:3
3 Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth;
Keep watch over the door of my lips
Words are powerful they can become toxic. They can break people down. Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue,And those who love it will eat its fruit. Verbal abuse is a real thing from constant blaming, name calling,degrading someone. Its very hurtful and hurts someone inwardly. Sometimes we don't even see our actions and how this can hurt and effect someone life. Calling them stupid or retard or B****. Constantly making it seem like everything is their fault. Constantly telling them about everything they do wrong. Over and over and over again. Its a harmful cycle and it can be damaging.
No More Verbal Abuse!
Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Verbal abuse doesn't have to carry on it can change. You must change your actions. Change the way you talk. Change the way you constantly blaime people. Change how you degrade them. You must fill those words with better words. Also take responsibility for your own actions. Its okay not to say something hurtful because once it leaves your mouth you cannot take it back. Hold you tongue when you feel that something is going to come out that will hurt someone. Think before you speak. Ask yourself how would those words make you feel inside if they were to be spoken towards you. We are all accountable for our own actions. So speak life !
No More Verbal Abuse!
Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Verbal abuse doesn't have to carry on it can change. You must change your actions. Change the way you talk. Change the way you constantly blaime people. Change how you degrade them. You must fill those words with better words. Also take responsibility for your own actions. Its okay not to say something hurtful because once it leaves your mouth you cannot take it back. Hold you tongue when you feel that something is going to come out that will hurt someone. Think before you speak. Ask yourself how would those words make you feel inside if they were to be spoken towards you. We are all accountable for our own actions. So speak life !
